My biggest draw back for survival is living in town.......but......my best friend lives on 9 acres and has made it clear we MUST come there if anything major goes down. Bad part is, she lives 14 miles away! Doesn't sound like much, but we've all seen disaster movies where making it 2 miles was near impossible!
Her house is in the middle of the property, positioned on a hill, so THAT is a plus. We have firearms of course and know how to use them. We are both knowledgeable about growing/gathering food as well as preserving food (canning, dehydrating, etc) and can do it without the power company if needed, LOL
Since we go camping, we have everything you need for outdoor life if it came to that. Packs, tents, cooking gear, compass, etc etc. We have small (pocket sized) guide books on native herbs/plants for eating, healing, disinfecting, etc included in our packs as well.
Long term (homestead), I know how (and have been doing for over a year) to make lye soap, laundry soap, and cleaning supplies....from complete scratch if I have to like Ashes from wood fire (potassium hydroxide) instead of store bought lye, I can make our own vinegar if needed as well. I can make cottage cheese, yogurt, butter, etc from cow or goat milk.
Our husbands (very much alike!) are cooperative, versatile, and are very handy with building, repairing, and not complaining.
There's no way to be ready for anything, but I've been preparing (knowledge wise) for everything I can think of. Hopefully, all those things can remain hobbies and will never be needed.