Guess who's getting bred?

SmexyPibble

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Did you guess it?

Kenai.

The other day my mom told me she was going to breed Kenai. She's going to put him up as a stud in six months. I told her how it's not a good idea at all. I told her his mom was from a puppy mill and we don't even know who his dad was, how he can't even be shown because he's all black, and how I volunteered at multiple shelters - one of which euthanized 7 dogs and 21 cats a day. I told her how I saw hundreds of beautiful, purebred dogs be killed simply because there are already too many in the world. All of those animals have to come from somewhere. She bashed me to the point where I was in tears. She told me it was her choice, my opinion wasn't going to phase her, she didn't care what I thought about it, he was her dog, she'd do what she wanted, and she was going to put him up as a stud for whoever wanted to breed their female to "a nice black Boxer". It's extremely frustrating, and sad for me. But if you've read the threads about my mom, you know she's a stubborn, manipulative, careless bitch, and I know I'm never going to get through to her. I can't believe I'm adding to the f*cking population, the population I watch DIE in shelters because of people like my mom. In the end, I told her I wouldn't be ANY part in this at all.

Oh wait, not only that, but she wants to keep one of his puppies, get another male and start breeding on her own.

I knew getting this puppy - from the beginning, wasn't a good idea at all. Did I tell you he's getting aggression issues and my mom refuses to correct it? She makes excuses for him and babies him for it.

Please don't think that I'm not doing what I can. I honestly tried, but I know I'll never get it into her warped little brain. I tried just like I tried to tell her not to get the puppy. But she didn't listen then, either.
 

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I think the reason the Universe lets you pick your friends is because you don't get to pick your family. :rofl1: You're doing your best. Don't make yourself feel bad about something you can't control.
 

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Ugh >.< Sorry you can't get through to her.

On a side note, you would not believe how many people ask to breed to Gavroche. It's ridiculous. I mean I don't even know if he's full boxer, and even if he was he's all white...and then the important part, he doesn't have balls xD
 
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cute, just cute. Shake your mom for me k?


Just keep telling yourself that one day you'll get to move out. Helped me alot, tho I left at 15 LOL.

Isn't he still a puppy?
 

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Thanks guys. :)

I wish I could move out at fifteen, I really do. I plan on getting emancipated next year.

Yes; he's six months old.

Ugh >.< Sorry you can't get through to her.

On a side note, you would not believe how many people ask to breed to Gavroche. It's ridiculous. I mean I don't even know if he's full boxer, and even if he was he's all white...and then the important part, he doesn't have balls xD
I thought about taking Kenai without her knowing and getting him neautered, but I'd getting a nice punch for that. :rolleyes:
 

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Oh wow! That is crazy, but I would not beat yourself up too much for it. You did all you could. And there is only so much you can do. Just hope and keep your fingers crosses that nobody will call and ask to use him as a stud.
 

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I thought about taking Kenai without her knowing and getting him neautered, but I'd getting a nice punch for that. :rolleyes:
I'd do it. She'll get over it. And I hope you don't mean your mother would literally punch you. Remind her that that is illegal (just like backyard breeding should be).
 

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Aww man Bre. :( Hopefully nobody will want puppies studded by a large black dog. I mean, sadly if he was in a shelter he'd probably get overlooked because of his color. The whites are flashy and "rare". Maybe she'll get discouraged and forget about it.

And just think, there aren't really many places she can advertise. Craigslist flaggers will bring her down in seconds. I don't think pet stores allow postings like that on the bulletin board, she'd have to pay $80 just to put an ad in the paper.

Ha ha, maybe someone else could sneak him to the Seattle shelter and get him one of those free "pitbull" neuters. Would Bobby do it?
 

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I'd do it. She'll get over it. And I hope you don't mean your mother would literally punch you. Remind her that that is illegal (just like backyard breeding should be).
Yes, actually, she does mean literally just that. And her mom doesn't care that it is illegal.


I'm sorry hon. =< Sometimes we do our best and we just can't get through to even the best of people, nevermind the worst of people. YOU are not contributing to the problem... you have done your best to stop it. Don't beat yourself up over it... at the end of the day you cannot control your mom's actions, you can only control your own. =<
 

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you did what you could right now...

when the time comes for you to get emancipated if hes not registered and you dont have to worry quite so much about getting beaten mabe there will be more you can do then, but for now theres not much you can do.
*hugs*
 

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I'm so sorry that you have to go through this . There is no reason for wanting this litter ! I proudly state that none of my litters were bred except for a pick of the litter that went to my mentor who showed Hall of fame Goldens in both Obedience and Show . All of my puppy packets had anti breeding charts and they knew it's a serious undertaking and expensive in both time and money .
 

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It's really too bad those fake testicles are sooo expensive - then no one would know he was neutered!

((((hugs))))
 

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Yes, actually, she does mean literally just that. And her mom doesn't care that it is illegal.
If she wants to be emancipated anyway, there are avenues she could take if she's regularly being punched by her mother. That is wrong on so many levels. Smexy, feel free to PM me.

Otherwise, could the dog accidentally get loose and wind up at animal control, already snipped? At this point I'm less concerned with the dog and more concerned with an underage child being punched by her parent. :mad:
 

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Thats seriously messed up, I'm sorry you have to put up with this crap, some people are just ignorant and they will never learn.
 

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Sneak him in for a vasectomy. He'll be able to "perform" just fine but won't be creating any "mini-me's." ;) She won't know the difference. :ninja:

I'm sorry you have to go through this. How utterly frustrating and disappointing.
 

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I wouldn't do anything that could make your mom mad. It's really not your decision and not worth getting hurt over. Sure it does suck but the blame is not on you at all.
 

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If she wants to be emancipated anyway, there are avenues she could take if she's regularly being punched by her mother. That is wrong on so many levels. Smexy, feel free to PM me.

Otherwise, could the dog accidentally get loose and wind up at animal control, already snipped? At this point I'm less concerned with the dog and more concerned with an underage child being punched by her parent. :mad:
we have plenty of threads on this already...and she's taking as many avenues as our lovely system will allow, but that's another story.

Bre, don't beat yourself up over this. It's a really unfortunate situation but regrettably, some people are too stubborn and selfish to comprehend even the most basic of facts which is why not matter how much we try to educate people, there will STILL be dogs in shelters. I hope that, while your mother is completely irresponsible, she does seem to care about HER dogs (if not the thousands of purebred puppies being put to death every second) and hopefully none of Kenai's immediate puppies will end up meeting an unfortunate end.
 

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I wouldn't do anything that could make your mom mad. It's really not your decision and not worth getting hurt over. Sure it does suck but the blame is not on you at all.
As sad as I am about it, this is how I feel on the subject too.

If you DID 'sneak him in' for a neuter, you could very well seal his own fate..........meaning, she could dump him and start over with another pup :(

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
There's always hope that this plan of hers will fall apart and be but a memory. Hope for that with all your might, I'll be right with you hoping the same ;)
 

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Thanks for the support everybody. :) It means a lot to me.

Romy said:
Ha ha, maybe someone else could sneak him to the Seattle shelter and get him one of those free "pitbull" neuters. Would Bobby do it?
Bobby? Oh his reply would be,
"**** it, why not!?"

;)
 

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