I've thought about this topic a lot before, but it was at the forefront of my mind while I just finished watching this video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U-VY_H_TG_Y
I was getting frustrated with the dog just watching it. I don't think I'd actually be able to work with a dog with that behavior and remain calm and patient. Or maybe I could as long as it wasn't MY dog. Somewhere in there he mentions that most people would probably slap a prong on this dog... YEP that'd probably be me.
I'm very.... reactive. lol. My dogs can, for example, be doing excellent while we go for a long walk. And if they lunge at one dog, I'm like THAT'S IT I'M DONE TRAINING FOREVER RAWR. I pretty much take it as a personal insult any time they practice a bad behavior, and in that MOMENT I don't even want to do anything to work on fixing it, I'm just annoyed and done and have Worst Dogs Ever. Afterwards I'm more focused on thinking about what I can do in future situations, but at the moment the bad behavior occurs, frustration takes over and I can't even be logical and can't even care.
I can hold grudges too, I remember a couple weeks ago being sooooo annoyed with Cajun and this was happening right before we were going to leave for her obedience class. And all I could think was "I don't even want to go and have to reward you for things. You deserve no rewards today." Obviously we went and life was fine but when I get frustrated... I hate training. I have no desire to work with the dog that is frustrating me. It's too hard for me to get back into a mindset where I can see the positive things that are happening.
So, there's my very human confession. What do you do when you're frustrated with your dogs... are you able to set it aside and keep trucking on? Do you stop and take a breather, and go back to things later? Or is it possible there is someone else like me out there who is just DONE when frustration occurs?